A Mother’s Perspective on Learn-to-Bike

Written by Kefu Huang, Mother of Participant

Like many kids on the spectrum, my son has struggled with body awareness and coordination. Because of that, riding a bike felt almost impossible for him. We tried for many years, but it never worked out. He just couldn’t get it.

It was especially hard when we went out exploring as a family, or when his class had social events where other kids rode bikes. Watching his friends, and his brother, ride so easily made him feel left behind. As a mom, it was heartbreaking to see his confidence slowly fade because of something that seemed so simple for others.

This January, we signed him up for the “Learn to Bike” program with the Autism Society Central Virginia and Beyond Boundaries, holding onto just a tiny bit of hope that maybe, somehow, it could work.

And wow… where do I even begin?

The coaches have been incredible. They found the perfect balance between pushing him to stretch his abilities while also being mindful of his emotions and building his confidence. Every session was encouraging, supportive, and a great workout for him.

And this week, something amazing happened.

At 11 years old, he learned to ride his bike.

Just like his neurotypical peers.

I cannot fully describe how proud I am of him. I’m already looking forward to the simple joys ahead: my son riding bikes with friends in the neighborhood, cruising down the street, or exploring the park together.

Most of all, I am deeply grateful for organizations like the Autism Society Central Virginia and Beyond Boundaries. Their expertise, patience, and passion give kids with autism opportunities to grow, build confidence, and experience milestones that once felt out of reach.

Thank you to everyone who makes moments like this possible.